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Tuesday, 4 September 2018

Dbanj and wife vacation with the Idibias in Dubai

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The video below shows Dbanj and his lovely wife enjoying themselves on a vacation trip with the Idibias( 2face family) In Dubai.


The purported video was posted on Instagram by the popular gossip page known as Instablog, please watch as tell us what you think about their vocational activities so far.





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Monday, 3 September 2018

Theo Ukpaa reveals his next action after being sacked by Linda Ikeji over rape allegations

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Linda Ikeji recently fired Media practitioner & manager of her TV station, LITV, over rape allegations.. and now, he’s finally spoken.


Ukpaa who held a high position in Linda’s company was accused of raping an Emilia Samuel when she was 16.

Emilia, who is now married with two children, alleged that Ukpaa raped and deflowered her at the age of 16-year-old and continued until he left the country.








This got Ukpaa’s boss Linda Ikeji to sack him while on his honeymoon which he still is on.

Reacting to the news, Ukpaa told Sunday Scoop:


“I am aware of the rape allegation. I am on my honeymoon right now; I will be back to the country next week. My legal team is on the matter. When I come into town, we can have a chat.”






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On Linda Ikeji sacking him Ukpaa confirmed his appointment was terminated on Monday, August 27, after reading Samuel’s story and insisted he would react to his sack after his honeymoon













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Friday, 31 August 2018

Lady fingers her private parts after WizKid shook her hands at his concert

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So an overly joyous lady took an audience aback following the action she took after her favourite singer, Wizkid touched her hands some days ago.

According to a Lady, Annie who was gisting her friend, Ola about what went down at Wizkid concert, she claims, the singer passed by a group of people – presumably while performing – and in salutation of his adorned fans, made physical contact with them.





According to a Lady, Annie who was gisting her friend, Ola about what went down at Wizkid concert, she claims, the singer passed by a group of people – presumably while performing – and in salutation of his adorned fans, made physical contact with them.
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This caused one of the ladies who was touched to extend the feel down to her genitals and the teller of the story was so shook that even sleep couldn’t take the thought off her mind.











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"I Would Love To See Bill Gates At One Of My Concerts” – Tiwa Savage

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Tiwa Savage has revealed that she might release an album later in the year. The ‘Ma Lo‘ singer also shared her wish to have one of the world’s richest men, Bill Gates, at her concert.


Tiwa made these revelations during an interview session with “Grape Juice” in London. She said she has recorded a lot of songs so far this year and thinks it’ll be a good idea to compile them into an album.






Tiwa gave a peek into her forthcoming project, revealing there would be few featured artists on the project; like she did on her previous albums.





The big revelation came when she said she would love to see Bill Gates at her concert, of course for his cheque; and also to hear his feedback on her music.










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Why I Registered For NYSC – Davido Reveals

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Davido has opened up on why he decided to participate in the one-year mandatory National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) program.


The news of Davido’s registration for NYSC is perhaps the biggest news story in the last couple days. The singer shared pictures and videos of himself donning the NYSC kit on social media. His arrival at the Lagos orientation camp for his registration was huge, with a crowd of prospective corps members gathering to welcome him. His registration exercise was made to include a concert, as he was made to perform some of his hit songs to his audience at the camp.




The ‘Aza’ crooner told newsmen at the NYSC camp that he registered for the scheme due to his strong passion for NYSC. He also promised to adhere to camp rules and regulations.





He said;

“As a young age Nigerian, I would not want to miss the opportunity to be part of the service year. I registered for the scheme due to my strong passion for NYSC.



Meanwhile, a total of 2,152 corps members commenced the 2018 Batch B Stream Two orientation training exercise in the state.”











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Wednesday, 29 August 2018

The Pinwheel

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INSTRUCTIONS

You and your partner lie on your sides facing the same direction. First, you lower your crotch onto his, wrapping your legs around either side of his torso. Your arms should be stretched out behind you supporting your weight. He then encircles your waist with his legs and grips your upper thighs and thrusts gently.


DIFFICULTY LEVEL

Honestly, this one is pretty cosy and not too aerobic. Once you get into position it should be smooth sailing.






You'll LOVE IT BECAUSE

Like most side-by-side sex positions, this one promises a kind of equality but with a head-on twist. "This position is well-suited for shallow penetrations," says Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of Now and Forever: Let's Make Love (Warner Books, 1997). Why would you want to dabble instead of really doing it deep? Because this way your partner can tease the turbo-charged nerve endings in the first third of your vagina, duh.





*HINT*

If you can coordinate it balance-wise, wrap your arms around him and pull him toward you, to better control the depth of penetration.
















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10 Stupidly-Satisfying Things All Women Want in Bed

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Everybody has different taste in bed, but there are a few things that are pretty universal. If you want to make sex better for your partner, start here.


1. A partner invested in my pleasure too.

 A woman is not your hand, a fleshlight, or any other masturbatory aid. Don’t just use her body until you orgasm and then roll over and assume she had a great time too because that’s not how it works. Being a good partner is about putting in equal effort. You don’t want to be the person who bailed on the group project all semester, just to swoop in and take credit for the A at the end.


2. Peace of mind when it comes to protection. 

Be prepared, and assume we’re doing it with a condom unless otherwise agreed upon beforehand. Don’t pressure me to take it off halfway through or look at me dumbfounded with your dick hanging out of your pants like you’ve never heard the word “condom” before. Just don’t do it! I will walk out. I really will.





3. An orgasm. 

Sex shouldn’t end with just the male orgasm — especially if she hasn’t had one yet. If you’re going to be too exhausted after you orgasm, make sure she’s taken care of beforehand. It’s not rocket science. If you know, for sure, you’re going to get yours, wouldn’t you want your partner to enjoy herself too?


4. Communication. 

There are a time and a place for wordlessly-grunty sex, but having a partner who asks if you’re into something or if you want it another way is also nice. You don’t get any extra points for making it to the finish line without saying a peep.





5. A clean bed. 

It’s really, really hard to let yourself go and enjoy yourself if you can feel your calves brushing up against any sedimentary layers of sweat, grime, and hookups past on his Target comforter with every grunt.


6. A spare phone charger. 

If I have to call an Uber afterwards, I want to be able to listen to music or check Twitter on my ride back, and I can’t do that if I stupidly let my phone just rot for the nine and a half minutes we had sex. And if I’m staying the night, I might still want to check Twitter if you fall asleep before me. Sue me!





7. Foreplay. 

It’s not a race to the finish line! You can take your time and draw stuff out and enjoy yourselves. A little patience will carry you a long, long way. Besides, if the orgasm was the only thing that mattered about sex, I’d be dating the USB brick that charges my vibrator.





8. Sock removal. 

Please, please remove your socks before sex. It’s just so weird to see someone like, fully naked but still wearing socks that it can really take you out of the moment. Plus, then you run into the weird thing of like, “Should I have left my socks on?” “Do they not like feet?” “Do they think my feet are ugly?!” and spiralling into a hole of foot-based anxiety, which is not a place anybody likes to be.


9. Realistic expectations. 

Please don’t climb into bed with me just to morph from Jake in Accounting to Ron Jeremy. Porn sex is cool and all, but real life sex isn’t always like that, and I resent the notion that it’s totally normal for a guy to flip you over wordlessly and try to stick it in your ass while calling you a dirty slut and telling you he’s gonna finish in your hair. Like, we just watched three episodes of Frasier on your laptop, stop acting like your convertible 2-bed is a sex dungeon. Chill.





10. Enthusiastic cunnilingus. 

Self-explanatory.












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Mercy Aigbe Gets Emotional As Daughter Leaves For School Abroad

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Mercy Aigbe was all emotional as she saw her daughter, Michelle off to the airport as she leaves for school abroad.


Filled with mixed feelings, the mother of two took to her Instagram page on Monday, August 27, 2018, where she shared a photo of her daughter, son and herself at the airport. She went on to write about how they have been a strong force together for 17 years and how she was going to miss her.






“I am super emotional right now……see who is off to school @michelleio__ …..Permit me to scream Jehovah Overdo!!!!!!!! All-sufficient God! Thank you, Lord, for all ……..for strength, for provision and above all for your unending GRACE…..For 17 years it’s been me and you, we have been thru a lot together, laughed together, cried together, danced together and we fight often.




“I am gonna miss you my best friend @michelleio__ My confidante….Go, My child, pursue, overtake and take dominion, I am solidly behind you in prayers…..LOVE YOU LOADS #strongwoman #childofgrace #singlemom #smallgirlwithbigGod #internationalstudent #childofaprayingmother #amazon #mercified,” she wrote.













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‘My Wife A Professional In Sleeping With Other Men’- Angry Husband

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A 49-year-old man, Gbenga Olomilua, Wednesday pleaded with a Grade C Customary Court sitting at Inanlende, Ibadan, to grant the divorce request of his wife, Rashidat, alleging that her promiscuity was out of control.


According to the News Agency of Nigeria, NAN, Olomilua told the court that his 10-year-old union with the plaintiff was characterized by cheating, nagging and disrespect.








“I married her when she was nothing. Although I didn’t pay her dowry, yet I took care of her and provided for all her needs to make her satisfied.




“I work in Lagos, but I spend my weekends in Ibadan. Unfortunately, she used my absence as an opportunity to learn the acts of infidelity from her friends.

“She is now an expert, whose promiscuity has reached an alarming stage. She hardly stays at home to take care of the two kids of our marriage.

“She is fond of nagging, and she will never listen to, or obey my instructions and command as the husband.

“In this regard, her decision to end the marriage is a welcome development,” Olomilua stated.



NAN reports that Rashidat, 32, had earlier urged the court to dissolve the union on grounds of brutality and unrest of mind.

The plaintiff accused her husband of beating her whenever they have a misunderstanding.







“He even cut my hair with a razor in one of our fights. My lord, I am scared because I am not sure of what he wants to do with my hair.




“He does not treat me as a husband will treat his lovely wife. He maltreats me, never providing for my needs,” she said.


Rashidat said that since there was no love in the relationship, the court should dissolve the marriage.

Chief Ramoni Olafenwa, the President of the court, thereafter dissolved the marriage and gave Olomilua custody of the first kid.

However, Olafenwa granted Rashidat custody of the second child and ordered the respondent to pay the sum of N4,000 as monthly upkeep allowance for the child.

He, therefore, advised the two parties to stay away from each other and maintain peace at all costs.














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Teacher Arrested For Having Sex Multiple Times With Boy After Class (Photo)

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An Oklahoma high school teacher has been arrested on allegations of having sex with a student, starting when he was 17 years old.


Haylie Smart, 29, was arrested on a charge of second-degree rape, the Rogers County Sheriff’s Office said.

She’s accused of having sex with the Oologah-Talala High School student both after class and at his home.

Smart’s employment with the School District I-004 ended on May 29, Max Tanner, superintendent of Oologah-Talala Public Schools, said in a statement to Tulsa World.




Smart was not discreet about her sexual relationship with the student, according to law enforcement documents.





The probable cause affidavit states she began rubbing the student’s back and placing her head on his shoulder in October 2017.

At some point, Smart and the student were said to have hugged in front of other students multiple times.





The two allegedly began having sex in November, according to the documents. The student turned 18 in December. Regardless of the student’s age, it’s illegal for a teacher to have sexual encounters with a student, under Oklahoma state law.

It’s believed Smart had sex with the student both after class, and also at his home, during a two-week statewide teacher walkout.

Smart sent a message to a friend in May about her alleged relationship with the student and noting the school’s investigation.

She said she believed the school would find sufficient evidence to fire her, according to authorities. Smart was suspended from the school district in May, and she resigned from her position several days later, Oklahoma News 4 reported.





The warrant for Smart’s arrest was issued on August 17, the Sheriff’s Office said. She turned herself in, to authorities on Friday and was released after posting a $25,000 bond.
















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[18+ ONLY] Naked Photos Of Lady Gaga Surfaces Online


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The photos taken by Eli Russell Linnetz shows Lady Gaga getting into her underwear
The singer had nothing on in some of the photos and others show her in the process of getting dressed.

An image has recently made its way online, the pictures which were posted by the victim her self, have made a headline around the world.

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How Porn Brought My Mom and Me Together

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I had a tense and antagonistic relationship with my mother when I was growing up. At the age of 16, I was sure that I would never speak to her again once I could move out of the house. We were too dissimilar: she, a methodical scientist and introvert; me, a free-spirited writer and extrovert. The tchotchkes around the house that gave her such joy made me want to scream and the pop culture I adored seemed toxic and damaging to her feminist politics.





It took me many years and 3,000 miles of distance for me to realize my mother was not just a parent, but a person with life experiences of her own. While I thought that she was just trying to ruin my life (as teenagers are wont to believe), I realize now how she was trying to protect me from the trauma that she experienced when she was my age. Thankfully, we now have a deeply loving, playfully teasing relationship — not just as mother and daughter, but as friends.

And we got there thanks, in part, to porn.

Yes, that is an incredibly weird thing to say. So many people I know can barely talk to their parents about sex, or their queer identity, or their multiple partners, never mind their lives as sex workers. I've always been grateful that my mother encouraged me to ask any and all questions that my public schools couldn't answer — questions like, "Oh my god, are the lumps under my nipples cancer??" (No.) Or, "Does it make me less of a feminist if I fantasize about being dominated?" (No, not if that's what I really want.) That openness was valuable to me.






“IT TOOK ME MANY YEARS AND 3,000 MILES OF DISTANCE FOR ME TO REALIZE MY MOTHER WAS NOT JUST A PARENT, BUT A PERSON WITH LIFE EXPERIENCES OF HER OWN.”


Still, I tried to hide my work in the porn industry from my mother. She's a second-wave feminist, so I grew up marching next to her at NOW rallies. By the time I was dabbling in the adult industry, I had read enough about the history of feminism to feel pretty confident that she would not welcome my "alternative lifestyle." I didn't feel very close to her at the time, and I certainly did not feel prepared to talk to her about this career choice. As I worked and blogged under a different name, I didn't think she would ever find out. 

She did.

My mother emailed me to say she had discovered that I was doing sex work and that I was using the name "Stryker," a family name with which my mother had a difficult relationship. My heart caught in my throat. Not only had I been caught doing sex work, which seemed against her feminist politics, but I was doing it using a name that she hated. I was sure I was about to get disowned.







“AS I WORKED AND BLOGGED UNDER A DIFFERENT NAME, I DIDN'T THINK SHE WOULD EVER FIND OUT. SHE DID.”



Incredibly, my mother was amused by my use of the name. In fact, she felt that my using it to do sex work kind of redeemed it for her, which touched my heart. Through that discovery, my mother and I began to talk more, sharing feminist writings on sex work (pro, con, and somewhere in the middle), talking about self-care, and discussing the ins and outs of ethical porn. My mother didn't yell at me, or talk over me, or dictate to me what I should or shouldn't be doing.

She listened.

She listened when I had great days and felt like porn was the most empowering thing I could do for myself, how I was claiming sexuality in a way that felt safe and fun for me. She listened when I felt insecure about my body, loving my fatness and my curves but also aware that being this way would mean fewer jobs and less respect. She listened when I had a tough day, and felt anxious about the weird power dynamics in the industry.

My mother never told me to quit. She never told me I had made a bad decision. She never asked me how I could be a feminist and a sex worker. She made space for me and my experiences, and she gave me advice or sympathy when I asked. So I found myself reaching out to her more often, grateful for her analysis and her wit. Now, I consider her one of my closest friends.






“MY MOTHER NEVER TOLD ME TO QUIT. SHE NEVER TOLD ME I HAD MADE A BAD DECISION.”






I know that my decision to have sex on screen wasn't easy for her to wrap her head around. I am so appreciative that she opened a completely unexpected door so we could have the relationship we have today. She's educated herself on various industry issues, becoming a solid and outspoken ally. Knowing she's proud of me — as an entrepreneur, as a writer, and yes, as a sex worker — has made me feel accepted and loved, and I am thankful every day to have been offered that chance for us to get to know each other all over again.















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Tuesday, 28 August 2018

Will Smith’s son Jaden shaves off his eyebrows, looks totally different

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Will Smith's son Jaden, an American upcoming rapper with a couple hit tracks, has recently appeared for a concert with a shaved eyebrows, making him look totally different.

The young rapper also made a promise to have his manhood surgical removed, with a decision to be neutral humanly, with no particular gender accustomed to him.

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I Was Emotionally Unfaithful and It Poisoned My Relationship

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My boyfriend and I moved to Lagos with only each other. We were 3,000 miles from home and knew no one else in this big city. I don't think either of us anticipated just how homesick we'd be, but at 19 years old, we were sure that all we needed was each other to take on this brand new world, so starkly different from our Southeastern roots. Our naiveté didn't last long.


I hardly remember that fall, our first couple months learning and forgetting how to run after a molue, I dutifully buried in schoolwork and him working 50+ hours a week just for an excuse to leave the house. But before I knew it, winter was upon us and we trudged through slush and snow, feeling perpetually frozen in a way that even my time in Ph and Owerri couldn't have prepared me for. Poor Igbo boy, he'd never experienced anything like it.

By January, less than six months into our Eko new life, hairline fractures of fear and homesickness had evolved into cracks of exhaustion, depression, and irreparable loneliness. Relying solely on one another for comfort, friendship, love, and support had made him needy and me resentful.





Frustrated by the imposed restrictedness on any social life and simultaneous monotony of our relationship, I sought out the attention and affections of other men, former flings, and street strangers, craving some kind of social interaction other than the repetitive banter and routine we had established at home. But my attempts to divert my domestic displeasures only made them that much more pronounced — we spent our evenings sitting opposite one other, Netflix on the TV but our fingers and eyes glued to our phones in a silent, self-induced boozy haze.

It was unfair of me to assume that he wasn't perceptive enough to notice. I kept my phone close at hand at all times, especially after his semi-successful attempts to learn my passcode and read my texts. We both felt the gap between us — mentally, emotionally, physically — widening, but were too scared of the potential loneliness to bring it up.

Our relationship ebbed further into distrust and resentment. Sensing something was going on, he would try going into my texts, Facebook messages, and email looking for something concrete to confirm his suspicions, and I would respond by strengthening my passwords and carrying my laptop with me when I left the house. But there weren't any sexts or dirty photos or evidence of infidelity that he was searching for in any of the messages with these other men. It wasn't the physical temptations leading me astray, but the search for emotional understanding from anyone to feel less alone.




One guy, in particular, Sam, an old high school fling who was back in Owerri, escalated our increasing trust issues to an unsalvageable level. Already (and quite reasonably) threatened by our history, my boyfriend was far from OK with my ongoing communication with Sam, especially as I became more secretive about my phone. So I would make excuses to leave the house while I called Sam for reassurance and comfort. I complained about my boyfriend and he responded with sympathetic encouragement for me to end things, that things could be so much better without him, that Sam and I had a "real" future together, until I was so worked up that I stormed home, icing out my boyfriend for no particular reason.

After eight months in Lagos, our relationship was only a hollow façade clinging onto some infinitesimal semblance of what we'd once been. Our daily communication had been boiled down to a scripted dialogue of "how was work/school" and a few select, abbreviated responses. We hadn't had sex in over three months; my failing to reciprocate his advances led him to finally give up any attempts. And the two of us, both singularly and as a couple, were utterly miserable. Rather than a reprieve from work and city life, the home was tense and uninviting, and I spent many nights taking too-long walks.




That festive period, we both went back to Owerri, attempting to defrost our bones from the Lagos struggles that seemed to last those entire eight months. It was there that I ended things. I was petrified of coming back to Lagos, this time truly on my own, but I was even more scared of having another year like that one. Loneliness is inevitable in a city as populated as Lagos, but there's nothing quite as isolating as being lonely with someone.

I am guilty, both of failing to communicate how I was feeling to my boyfriend and of using those other men as an emotional distraction. And it all led me right back to where I had spent all that effort avoiding — alone in Lagos.








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My Husband and I Text More Than We Talk – and That's OK

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My husband and I text each other like teenagers. We have far more texting conversations than we do face-to-face and it's a rare day where we go more than a couple of hours without texting each other. The fact is surprising to friends and family, who have been witness to the constant back-and-forth of our text communications. Regardless of the content  —and it might be the menu for dinner, a reminder about our children's school schedule, or a simple "I love you!" — the texts fly fast and furious from sunrise to bedtime. The fact is, texting has become our primary form of communication in the past few years and it doesn't bother me a bit. I love it.






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The beauty of texting is that it simplifies our lives while intensifying our connection. Sending texts is easier than making a phone call — when one of us is likely busy with work or childcare — and written communication is a good way of keeping track of shared information from dates of parent-teacher conferences to grocery lists. We go back and forth constantly, every day, sharing the minutiae of our lives with each other whether it's about an NPR interview he heard on the way to work or a photograph of our sons on their first morning of school. Texting has become a way to improve our communication with each other and stay closer amid the chaos of our daily lives.





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Texting also gives us peace of mind. I carry my phone with me on my nightly walks with our dog and text him once or twice during the walk, sending a photo of a particularly gorgeous moon or asking him to feed the cat. He texts me when he arrives safely at work in the morning and again when he leaves for home in the afternoon, giving me an estimated time of arrival. I text him when I drop off the kids at school in the morning and let him know my plan for after school. And so it goes. It's not only about safety, it's about connection — feeling as if our family is together, even when we're in our various pursuits.

And yes, we even text each other from different rooms of the house. If that sounds like a warning sign of a bad relationship or an addiction to tech, let me explain: We have two young children who fill our days (and nights) with chatter and stories of their own. In the evenings, we collaborate to get them to bed. We text each other while we're getting them bathed and in bed, when they are capable of doing everything themselves but still require some supervision. Even though we're in the same house, the many tasks that are involved in family life mean that we aren't usually face-to-face and alone until after 9 p.m. at night. By that time, there are few details of each other's day that we don't already know. I feel as if I had been sitting in his middle school classroom while he taught math, I know what traffic was like both morning and afternoon, even what he had for lunch. He knows about my writing deadlines, has received links to my newest published piece, and knows how much coffee I had in one of my writing sessions at the coffee shop. We are together even when we are apart.





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Some couples may feel like this is all too much connecting, too much sharing. But this isn't a new thing for us — we have always stayed this connected and involved in each other's lives, using whatever technology we've had available. Phone calls, voice mails, emails, video chat, we have made the most of all of them. And before that, we wrote letters and cards. In fact, we still do. It's not about the technology — though it has it has perks — it's about togetherness in whatever form we can get it. Our lives have been this entwined since we got married and the only thing that has changed is the mode of communication. There is nothing like spending a couple of hours lying on the couch, holding hands and talking about everything that's in our heads. But when time and circumstance doesn't allow for that, we have our text messages to keep us together.

And now you'll have to excuse me. I'm going to text my husband to see what he wants for dinner and tell him I love him.




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5 Fifty Shades Sex Positions To Set Your Climax Free

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A lot of the sex scenes from Fifty Shades Freed elicit a resounding "hell no" from me. Sorry, but I just don't find sex in a meadow erotic. Ticks, anyone?! But a select few are actually worth a shot if you're feeling brave, or have run out of Netflix shows to binge. Below, five BDSM-ish positions that will probably make your inner goddess do a backflip or something.






1. Chain of Fools.

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Try this bondage position Christian and Ana get busy with on their honeymoon. You'll need two sets of handcuffs and the ability to check your dignity at the door because it's highly possible you will feel like a tied up Thanksgiving turkey. Affix a pair of handcuffs to each ankle, then cuff your left ankle to your left hand, and your right ankle to your right hand. You should be curled up like a ball, at the whim of your partner who is hopefully less vindictive than Christian. You can lean back and have them enter from a kneeling position in front of you, or experiment with how it feels on your side. Kinky fuckery, indeed.






2. Nip Slip.

In the world of Fifty Shades, Ana gets off from even the slightest nipple graze. (Oh, to be wealthy and fictional). And while nipple-only orgasms might sound impossible, they're actually A Thing. To try your luck, have your partner assume a seated position. Straddle them topless, getting your breasts level with their mouth. They can lick, suck, touch, and squeeze to your liking. If this doesn't work (sorry!), hop on top of their peen and go for an orgasm the old-fashioned way.




3. Plug Playtime.

It was really only a matter of time before E.L. James ventured into Butt Stuff™. To try out a butt plug for yourself, choose a body safe option with a flared base. Assume the doggy-style position and have your partner insert the toy slowly. If it's feeling good, they can penetrate you vaginally from this position, reaching a hand around to touch your clit, too. This is probably the only time it's a good idea to take a page out of Ana and Christian's book: start small and use lots of lube.
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4. Wand Magic.

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In the book, Christian uses a wand-style vibrator on Ana to "punish" her, basically denying her an orgasm to the point of torture. IRL, wand vibrators are the shit and can be used for pleasure, not pain. Here's how: do this one with a partner who actually wants you to orgasm. If you want to give up some control, try tying your hands behind your back or over your head. Lean up against a surface and let your partner press the vibrator against your vag. Tell them how much pressure to use and make lots of eye contact. No one stops or gets untied until you finish.





5. The Couch Crouch.

Of all the Freed sex scenes, this might be the hottest. Using whatever type of restraints you may have around (in the book, Christian uses bathrobe ties), have your partner secure your knees to both arms of a couch, so your legs are completely open. Feel free to gently massage your clitoris while your partner watches. When you're sufficiently warmed up, command your partner to go down on you until you say when. You're basically a queen on a couch throne.












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