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Monday, 28 November 2022

50 Ways to Be Romantic on the Cheap

Ways to Be Romantic on the Cheap

Often my articles on family are about spending time with your kids, but today we’ll talk about another important aspect of families: couples. If you’ve got a significant other, I highly recommend you keep the spark of your relationship alive and find ways to show you appreciate each other, every week and every day, if possible.

Look for little, inexpensive ways to be romantic, and it will pay off for your relationship in innumerable ways.

Why inexpensive? Well, you could rent a limo and take your love to a snooty French restaurant, or whisk him or her off to a trip to the snow-capped Alps, or rent a stadium and have the Three Tenors sing love songs for you while the New York Philharmonic plays in the background. I don’t know about you, but I can’t afford to do that kind of stuff more than a few times a month. The rest of the time, I have to resort to cheapskate.

Before we get into the list, let’s look at a few notes on how to use the list:

Weekly dates. I recommend you have a date at least once a week with your partner. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one, but at least find some way to spend a couple hours time together. If you’ve got kids, like I do, find a babysitter.

Communicate. Romantic gestures don’t take the place of real communication. Take time to talk about your goals, your dreams, your plans for the future, your current lives, things you’re happy about, things you love about the other person, things you’d like to work on, things you’re grateful for.

Inspiration. This list contains a lot of obvious stuff — you could probably come up with twice as many good ideas yourself. But the list doesn’t aim for originality — it aims to be an inspiration. Pick and choose some good ideas, or use it to spark some of your own. Sometimes we just need a little reminder.

Forget Valentines. Boycott Valentine’s Day, as it makes people think they should be romantic on special occasions. Instead, pick one of these ideas and do it any day of the week — no need for a special occasion.

OK, enough talk. Let’s look at some ways to be romantic without breaking your budget (note to my mom: don’t read this, as there are a couple of sexy-time things later on):

Write a poem.
Cook a romantic dinner.
Give a full-body massage.
Pack a sunset picnic.
Pick wildflowers on the way home.
Burn a CD with love songs.
Give dark chocolates.
Read poetry together.
Prepare strawberries with fondue chocolate.
Snuggle together on a rainy day.
Leave little love notes everywhere.
Send a love email every day.
Take a moonlit walk on the beach.
Snuggle together while watching romantic movies (Casablanca, Audrey Hepburn are my favs).
Get good wine, watch shooting stars.
Take a bath together (use bubbles!).
Bring home good coffee or a decadent sweet.
Take a walk down memory lane — visit some of the special places from your early days of dating.
Make warm chocolate cake for dessert.
Make a scrapbook with photos, mementos, and little notes from you lives together.
Kiss in the rain.
Ride a ferris wheel.
Sneak away from a party and make out.
Bring home great take-out, and light some candles.
Fix something or fix up the house just to make your partner happy.
Slow dance to romantic music.
Take a nap together.
Kiss slowly, touching his or her back and neck and nape — slowly.
Make a list of everything you love about him or her.
Write a love letter.
Clip or email things that make you think of him or her, every day.
Go to a movie, ignore the movie, and make out like teen-agers.
Groom yourself, and try to look good for your partner.
Take some quiet time and talk about your day.
Write little notes, one for each way he or she drives you crazy.
Feed each other grapes.
Recreate your partner’s favorite romantic movie scene.
Pretend you’re going on a first date — show up at the door with flowers, all dressed up, with your car washed and cleaned, looking spiffy. Recreate the first time.
Create a little box with a bunch of your partner’s favorite things inside.
Paint each other with flavored body paint. Be creative!
Try some sexy role-playing. Get dressed up, be daring, have fun.
Give a little token to your partner to wear, and say it’s to remind him or her all day that you love them.
Sing a favorite song to him or her. Only do this if you can sing fairly well.
Have dinner on the roof, with some candles. This doesn’t work if your roof slopes sharply.
Hold hands, and walk somewhere with lots of pretty lights.
Say I love you. In a different way, every day.
Blindfold your partner. Use a feather. Slowly.
Declare your love, very publicly.
Fruit or berries and freshly made whipped cream.
Play Sade. Do what comes naturally. Slowly.

Hot!!! Hotel Sex Positions That Will Make Your vacations a Memorable One.

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There’s a reason why hotel sex is so good–you’re on vacation! You’re moving away from your go-to routine, which, however great, could always use some variety of relocation. And what better way to mix it up than a king-size bed, fresh sheets you don’t have to clean up, and (if you get the post-boning munchies) room service? Whether you do it on the bed, in the luxury shower, or, hell, on a desk chair, here are eight positions to really help you enjoy your stay.

A Room With a View

Use the huge picture window for some pretend exhibition. Wait until night and you’ll be able to see everything and everyone outside, but they can’t see you. Have your partner hop aboard the standard-issue accent chair while you climb on top of them. Remember to turn off ALL the lights in the room and obvs don’t be on the first floor or it gets way too real!

The All-Inclusive

Now’s the time to bring out that one vibe that’s really, really good but a little too loud for home. Try doggy with a reach-around by the giving partner. (If the giver is using a strap-on, a wearable one that vibrates will do a li’l something for them too.) And if it sounds like a chainsaw is going off in your room, well, let your hall mates wonder. It’s not like you’ll ever see them again!

The Four-Poster Fantasy

Stand on the pillows (again–not yours to wash!) and face the wall, grabbing on to a bedpost and propping a foot on the headboard. This works best at a bed-and-breakfast where defiling the dainty space seems extra dirty, but any room with a headboard or bedposts will do. Usually, you should be totally present with your partner, but in this case, feel quite free to press your cheek against the old-timey wallpaper and have a full-on historical romantic fantasy. You can tell them about it as they f*ck you...or not.

The Do Not Disturb

Hotels always have huge mirrors that are perfect for watching yourselves having sex. Find that mirror, drag a chair or that flimsy luggage rack thing over there, and start making out, murmuring something like, “Look how hot we look.” Tell them you want to watch as they slide inside you, and prop your leg up so you can both see how completely sexy you look. There’s a reason people are voyeurs and exhibitionists—do this and you’ll see why.

The Wake-Up Call

Sleep in as long as you like and wake up slowly. Start the day by lying on your stomach, opening your legs a bit, and letting them slide in from behind. After sharing a bed all night, your bodies will be relaxed and ready for each other (especially because of the glory of morning wood), and since you’re facing away from your partner, no worries about the non-glories of morning breath.

For Adults Only

Anyone can turn on the computer and wank to some porn, but there’s something delightfully forbidden and old-school about checking out the “adult channel” that still exists in every hotel. Suggest seeing what’s on (this is even more effective if it’s out of character for you) and position yourselves facing the TV. If you’re feeling it, copy what the actors are doing. Be as loud as you want (because, hotel!). If you receive a noise complaint, count it as a badge of honour.

The Upward Affair

A hotel is ideal for acting out a fantasy role-play. The best part is, you can be absolutely anyone. Seduction of the room service delivery guy/maid? Adulterous lovers secretly meeting for the first time? Put your ass at the edge of the bed, legs over their shoulders, and have them lean down between your legs. Just throw yourselves into it. Role-play is weirdly freeing because it’s not “you,” it’s your character.

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Advice for men

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7 S**x Mistakes Men Make

Men: A change in thinking may improve your sex life. Get the details on seven common mistakes guys make with women, and learn how to avoid them.

Mistake 1: Sex Starts in the Bedroom

Men may turn on like a light, but for women, arousal doesn’t happen so fast, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD.

Pave the way during the day by hugging, kissing, and holding hands. Have some fun together, and show you appreciate her.

Feeling safe and secure in the relationship is key for a woman to really let loose during sex, Kerner says. A long hug can go further than you’d think. “Hugging for 30 seconds stimulates oxytocin, the hormone in women that creates [a] sense of connection and trust.”

Mistake 2: Assume You Know What She Wants

“Just as many women are faking orgasm today as 20 or 30 years ago,” Kerner says. So, if she’s not enjoying herself, you might not know it.

Don't be afraid to ask questions like “How does this feel?” or “Do you want something different?”

In other words, ask for directions.

Mistake 3: Stick to Your Plan

Don't think that "if it worked the first three times, it will work the next three times," says sex therapist Sari Cooper, LCSW.

What turns her on may depend on her mood, and where she is in her monthly cycle. “Perhaps her nipples are more sensitive or her genitals are less tingly,” Cooper adds.

Pay attention to your partner, says psychologist Lonnie Barbach, PhD. “Try different things and see how she responds.”

When you find something that works, linger on it. Women often complain that men move on to the next thing just as they really start to enjoy an activity.

Mistake 4: Keep It Strictly Physical

Expand your idea of foreplay. Some men "focus on physical stimulation and often ignore mental stimulation,” Kerner says.

While men get stirred up by what they see, “women fantasize a lot during sex as part of [the] process of arousal.” Join in -- share a fantasy or a sexy memory.

Mistake 5: Expect Intercourse to Give Her an Orgasm

For 80% of women, intercourse alone won’t do the trick. Why not? Most sex positions don’t directly stimulate the clitoris.

There are other ways to pleasure her. “Women orgasm much more consistently from oral sex than from intercourse,” Kerner says. Also, try sex with the woman on top, or a vibrator made for couples to use during sex. “Men should feel comfortable, not threatened, with sex toys,” he says.

To help her hit the high note when you do have sex, take time to get her going before you make your entrance. “The closer women are when they start intercourse, the more likely they are to have an orgasm,” Barbach says.

Mistake 6: Skip the Seduction

Women like to be seduced. "Seduction is as important as, or sometimes more important than, technique,” Cooper says.

It helps to know what kind of turn-on your partner likes, whether it’s oral, visual, or mental, she says. “Does your partner like it when you talk dirty over the phone or text? Trace your finger slowly up her chest? Flirt with her at a bar?”

Also, if you like what you see, say so. "Let a woman know how desirable she is,” Barbach says.

Mistake 7: Focus on Ringing the Bell

Most women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, but it's more complex than you may think.
Some men "don’t understand the anatomy of the clitoris,” Cooper says. It’s more than the small "button" you can see. Its nerve endings spread throughout the vulva and inside the vagina. All are potential pleasure points worth exploring.

“You can go back and forth,” Cooper says. Paying too much attention to the glans, at the top of the vulva, can take away from pleasure for some women. It's so sensitive, that too much stimulation can hurt.

Why I Registered For NYSC – Davido Reveals

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Davido has opened up on why he decided to participate in the one-year mandatory National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) program.

The news of Davido’s registration for NYSC is perhaps the biggest news story in the last couple days. The singer shared pictures and videos of himself donning the NYSC kit on social media. His arrival at the Lagos orientation camp for his registration was huge, with a crowd of prospective corps members gathering to welcome him. His registration exercise was made to include a concert, as he was made to perform some of his hit songs to his audience at the camp.

The ‘Aza’ crooner told newsmen at the NYSC camp that he registered for the scheme due to his strong passion for NYSC. He also promised to adhere to camp rules and regulations.

He said;

“As a young age Nigerian, I would not want to miss the opportunity to be part of the service year. I registered for the scheme due to my strong passion for NYSC.

Meanwhile, a total of 2,152 corps members commenced the 2018 Batch B Stream Two orientation training exercise in the state.”

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The Pinwheel

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INSTRUCTIONS

You and your partner lie on your sides facing the same direction. First, you lower your crotch onto his, wrapping your legs around either side of his torso. Your arms should be stretched out behind you supporting your weight. He then encircles your waist with his legs and grips your upper thighs and thrusts gently.

DIFFICULTY LEVEL

Honestly, this one is pretty cosy and not too aerobic. Once you get into position it should be smooth sailing.

You'll LOVE IT BECAUSE

Like most side-by-side sex positions, this one promises a kind of equality but with a head-on twist. "This position is well-suited for shallow penetrations," says Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of Now and Forever: Let's Make Love (Warner Books, 1997). Why would you want to dabble instead of really doing it deep? Because this way your partner can tease the turbo-charged nerve endings in the first third of your vagina, duh.

HINT

If you can coordinate it balance-wise, wrap your arms around him and pull him toward you, to better control the depth of penetration.

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My Husband and I Text More Than We Talk – and That's OK

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My husband and I text each other like teenagers. We have far more texting conversations than we do face-to-face and it's a rare day where we go more than a couple of hours without texting each other. The fact is surprising to friends and family, who have been witness to the constant back-and-forth of our text communications. Regardless of the content —and it might be the menu for dinner, a reminder about our children's school schedule, or a simple "I love you!" — the texts fly fast and furious from sunrise to bedtime. The fact is, texting has become our primary form of communication in the past few years and it doesn't bother me a bit. I love it.

The beauty of texting is that it simplifies our lives while intensifying our connection. Sending texts is easier than making a phone call — when one of us is likely busy with work or childcare — and written communication is a good way of keeping track of shared information from dates of parent-teacher conferences to grocery lists. We go back and forth constantly, every day, sharing the minutiae of our lives with each other whether it's about an NPR interview he heard on the way to work or a photograph of our sons on their first morning of school. Texting has become a way to improve our communication with each other and stay closer amid the chaos of our daily lives.

Texting also gives us peace of mind. I carry my phone with me on my nightly walks with our dog and text him once or twice during the walk, sending a photo of a particularly gorgeous moon or asking him to feed the cat. He texts me when he arrives safely at work in the morning and again when he leaves for home in the afternoon, giving me an estimated time of arrival. I text him when I drop off the kids at school in the morning and let him know my plan for after school. And so it goes. It's not only about safety, it's about connection — feeling as if our family is together, even when we're in our various pursuits.

And yes, we even text each other from different rooms of the house. If that sounds like a warning sign of a bad relationship or an addiction to tech, let me explain: We have two young children who fill our days (and nights) with chatter and stories of their own. In the evenings, we collaborate to get them to bed. We text each other while we're getting them bathed and in bed, when they are capable of doing everything themselves but still require some supervision. Even though we're in the same house, the many tasks that are involved in family life mean that we aren't usually face-to-face and alone until after 9 p.m. at night. By that time, there are few details of each other's day that we don't already know. I feel as if I had been sitting in his middle school classroom while he taught math, I know what traffic was like both morning and afternoon, even what he had for lunch. He knows about my writing deadlines, has received links to my newest published piece, and knows how much coffee I had in one of my writing sessions at the coffee shop. We are together even when we are apart.

Some couples may feel like this is all too much connecting, too much sharing. But this isn't a new thing for us — we have always stayed this connected and involved in each other's lives, using whatever technology we've had available. Phone calls, voice mails, emails, video chat, we have made the most of all of them. And before that, we wrote letters and cards. In fact, we still do. It's not about the technology — though it has it has perks — it's about togetherness in whatever form we can get it. Our lives have been this entwined since we got married and the only thing that has changed is the mode of communication. There is nothing like spending a couple of hours lying on the couch, holding hands and talking about everything that's in our heads. But when time and circumstance doesn't allow for that, we have our text messages to keep us together.

And now you'll have to excuse me. I'm going to text my husband to see what he wants for dinner and tell him I love him.

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Man Filmed Masturbating On The Floor At JFK Airport (Watch Video)

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This man pictured above was filmed masturbating as he stylishly lay on the floor at the JFK airport in New York.

Watch the video below:-

See this one wanking on the floor at JFK airport, New York. Idiot!

A post shared by Tunde Ednut (@tundeednut) on Aug 28, 2018 at 6:20am PDT

Marriage Doesn't Work, Just have a child - Timaya Advice's Phyno

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A recent video has surfaced online with the content, perusing an advice from timaya to phyno as a senior colleague in the music industry, the advice was directed to phyno, telling him to have a son.

Marriage doesn't work, just as said by timaya in the video below:-

“Marriage doesn’t work. Just have a child,” Timaya advises Phyno

A post shared by Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) on Aug 27, 2018 at 12:45am PDT

PLEASE DROP YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS.

Black-men Monday

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Hello ladies, we randomly select hot black men Monday just to spice up your week and as well help you catch some exciting fun, with your eyes or anyother chosen part of your lovely bodies, the men are not left out on this.

See image below:-

SMASH OR PASS?

Ladies drop your comments below, guys are not left out on this.

Joke!!! New Dating Agreement, To Curtail Cheating(Video)

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As posted by oluwadolarz, an Instagram comedian, I couldn't laugh alone, had to share with you guys.

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Guys you all need to go do yours now ...!!!! @vanjosh_ @ife_luv12 @jay_luchi Visuals by @iamedemvictor Song : Kopiko by @iam_dreyrapz

A post shared by Oluwadolarz Room Of Comedy (@oluwadolarz) on Aug 26, 2018 at 10:58am PDT

Be Sincere: Would You Collect 1 Million Dollars To Be Gay For Just One Day?

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Ok!!! It's time we discuss something, serious guys.

I was having one of those conversations and well, I thought our FL readers would love to share their minds.

So Nigeria is among one of those countries that frown towards homosexuality in the world because of our culture and religious beliefs which is reasonable enough.

But sometimes the hatred Nigerians show towards this can be a bit too tense, I mean some Nigerians would pick a murderer over a gay guy, I understand the sentiment but really?

Homosexuality is a crime in Nigeria and I believe as a good citizen you should abide by the law and if you are involved in the act you deserve the legal punishment for the crime but a citizen should not take judgement into their hands.

I had a conversation with this guy who said he can kill a gay person and let a murderer live, but I asked him what if he was offered $1 million dollars to be gay for a day asked if he would take the offer and then his perspective changed all of a sudden.

I personally believe many Nigerians despite their hatred, sentiment and religious beliefs would take this offer and all of a sudden not see much wrong with the act anymore, but some of my guys say they wouldn’t,

So Guys

Would You As A Person Take About 350 Million Naira To Be Gay For Just One Day?

Wizkid And Nike Collaborate To Produce Lovely Starboy-Super Eagles Shirt (See Photos)

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Superstar Afropop artiste has stepped up his entrepreneurial vision as he collaborates with Nike to produce a cute Starboy-Super Eagles Shirts.

Wizkid is about to put some heat in the fashion industry with the vision he has been displaying for his new clothing line business.

Wizkid took to his Social space to announced a new collaboration with an American multinational corporation, Nike to run production of new shirts with “Naija Super Eagles” and “Wizkid” designed in a circular fashion on it. According to the post, Wizkid himself designed the shirt in collaboration with Nike.

He wrote:-

“#ComingSoon @Nike x #StarBoyTakeOver. Take my hood everywhere. Global! #Suruleretotheworld #LereBoy #Starboy soon come! Design by me and Gang”"

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Beautiful Moment Tiwa Savage Brought Her Son On Stage At Her Concert (Photo)

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It is no longer news that Nigerian singing sensation, Tiwa Savage pulled off a successful show as she sold out at the 02 Arena in Indigo, London on Friday night.

The Mavins First Lady, who just wrapped up her sold out ‘Savage Tour’ concert, brought her son, Jamil Balogun up on stage as she rehearsed before her concert kicked off.

It’s needless to say that the independent songstress ensured to make her son happy, performing mummy duties even though she had a challenging feat to face.

The photo of the two have been shared online and it’s all shades of adorable.

Monday, 28 November 2022

Ways to Be Romantic on the Cheap

Saturday, 22 June 2019

A Room With a View

The All-Inclusive

The Four-Poster Fantasy

The Do Not Disturb

The Wake-Up Call

For Adults Only

The Upward Affair

Wednesday, 15 May 2019

7 S**x Mistakes Men Make

Men: A change in thinking may improve your sex life. Get the details on seven common mistakes guys make with women, and learn how to avoid them.

Mistake 1: Sex Starts in the Bedroom

Mistake 2: Assume You Know What She Wants

Mistake 3: Stick to Your Plan

Mistake 4: Keep It Strictly Physical

Mistake 5: Expect Intercourse to Give Her an Orgasm

Mistake 6: Skip the Seduction

Mistake 7: Focus on Ringing the Bell

Friday, 31 August 2018

Davido has opened up on why he decided to participate in the one-year mandatory National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) program.

“As a young age Nigerian, I would not want to miss the opportunity to be part of the service year. I registered for the scheme due to my strong passion for NYSC. Meanwhile, a total of 2,152 corps members commenced the 2018 Batch B Stream Two orientation training exercise in the state.”

Wednesday, 29 August 2018

INSTRUCTIONS

DIFFICULTY LEVEL

You'll LOVE IT BECAUSE

*HINT*

Tuesday, 28 August 2018

This man pictured above was filmed masturbating as he stylishly lay on the floor at the JFK airport in New York.

Monday, 27 August 2018

A recent video has surfaced online with the content, perusing an advice from timaya to phyno as a senior colleague in the music industry, the advice was directed to phyno, telling him to have a son.

Hello ladies, we randomly select hot black men Monday just to spice up your week and as well help you catch some exciting fun, with your eyes or anyother chosen part of your lovely bodies, the men are not left out on this.

Sunday, 26 August 2018

As posted by oluwadolarz, an Instagram comedian, I couldn't laugh alone, had to share with you guys.

Ok!!! It's time we discuss something, serious guys.

Superstar Afropop artiste has stepped up his entrepreneurial vision as he collaborates with Nike to produce a cute Starboy-Super Eagles Shirts.

“#ComingSoon @Nike x #StarBoyTakeOver. Take my hood everywhere. Global! #Suruleretotheworld #LereBoy #Starboy soon come! Design by me and Gang”"

It is no longer news that Nigerian singing sensation, Tiwa Savage pulled off a successful show as she sold out at the 02 Arena in Indigo, London on Friday night.

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“As a young age Nigerian, I would not want to miss the opportunity to be part of the service year. I registered for the scheme due to my strong passion for NYSC.

Meanwhile, a total of 2,152 corps members commenced the 2018 Batch B Stream Two orientation training exercise in the state.”

HINT